SANYA'S GLAM & GOLD: WHEN FAMILY IS PART OF THE TEAM

Reginald Dominique | 7/25/2013, 9:55 a.m.

Before reality television became filled with cameras following celebrities from one manufactured moment to the next, there was something particularly interesting about watching a family that was already deeply intertwined before the cameras arrived.

For Olympic champion Sanya Richards-Ross, family wasn't simply the people waiting for her at the finish line.

Family was the team.

That was the heart of WE tv's Sanya's Glam & Gold, the six-episode 2013 docu-series that introduced viewers to the world of Richards-Ross and her husband, NFL star Aaron Ross. The series premiered July 25, 2013, following the couple as they navigated marriage, careers, business and an extended family that was deeply involved in Sanya's professional life.

And while the Olympic medals and NFL career made Sanya and Aaron natural television subjects, it was the family's involvement that gave the series its personality.

MORE THAN HUSBAND AND WIFE

Sanya and Aaron were already accustomed to competing at the highest level.

She was an Olympic champion and one of the world's premier track-and-field athletes. He was a professional football player and two-time Super Bowl champion. The couple had met while attending the University of Texas and married in 2010.

But Glam & Gold showed another side of their relationship.

Away from the stadium and football field, they were simply husband and wife trying to figure out how two intensely ambitious people build a life together.

Aaron wanted a family. Sanya was intensely focused on her career, training and the businesses she was building.

That difference became one of the recurring themes of the series.

In the premiere, titled "The Victory Lap," the couple's conversation about having children became part of the storyline while Sanya simultaneously dealt with family and business matters during a trip to Jamaica.

It was a reminder that even people who appear to have everything can still be negotiating the same questions that confront couples everywhere:

When is the right time? How do we balance two careers? And how do we make room for family when ambition is demanding so much of us?

TEAM S.R.R.

Perhaps the most fascinating part of Sanya's world was that her family wasn't standing outside her career.

They were inside it.

Her father, Archie Richards, served as her manager. Her mother, Sharon Richards, worked as her agent. Her sister, Shari Richards, was her business partner in The Hair Clinic, an Austin salon that Sanya funded while Shari operated the business. Cousin Yolande "Yollie" Kelly worked as Sanya's publicist and stylist.

In other words, Sanya didn't have to look far to assemble her professional team.

She had already built one around her dining table.

WE tv described the group as "Team S.R.R." and positioned the family as a major part of the series.

That arrangement also created an unavoidable reality: business and family don't always agree.

The cameras captured disagreements between Sanya and Shari over the salon. There were disagreements involving Sanya's mother. There were moments when family members felt overlooked or unappreciated.

But those disagreements were part of what made the family dynamic recognizable.

They weren't merely employees.

They were parents, siblings, spouses and cousins.

And when family members work together, the conversations don't always end when the workday does.

A FAMILY THAT CELEBRATED TOGETHER

The series also showed the importance of celebrating accomplishments together.

Following Sanya's Olympic success, the family traveled to Jamaica for what the show presented as a victory celebration.

For Sanya, Jamaica represented more than a vacation destination. It was part of her identity and her history.

Born in Jamaica, she moved to the United States at age 12 and ultimately became one of America's most accomplished track-and-field athletes.

Returning home with an Olympic gold medal made the celebration especially meaningful.

The victory belonged to Sanya, but it was also a victory for the people who had helped her reach that point.

THE PRICE OF AMBITION

One of the most compelling aspects of Glam & Gold was that it didn't pretend that success automatically makes life easier.

In fact, success can create its own complications.

Sanya's schedule was demanding.

Training, appearances, business responsibilities and family obligations competed for her attention. One episode specifically explored Aaron feeling neglected as Sanya devoted herself to work.

For an elite athlete, the clock is always moving.

There is another season.

Another championship.

Another opportunity.

Another race.

But marriage doesn't operate on an athletic schedule.

Neither does family.

That tension gave the series a relatable quality beneath all the glamour.

A FAMILY BUSINESS IS STILL A FAMILY

Sanya's relationship with her sister Shari demonstrated another complicated reality: sometimes the people closest to you are the people with whom you disagree most.

The Hair Clinic wasn't simply another business investment. It was a project involving sisters.

And that meant that disagreements about business could quickly become disagreements about family.

The same dynamic existed throughout Sanya's professional life.

Her father wasn't simply her father.

He was also her manager.

Her mother wasn't simply her mother.

She was also her agent.

Her cousin wasn't simply her cousin.

She was also part of Sanya's professional image.

That arrangement created an unusual level of trust — but it also meant that separating work from family could be nearly impossible.

THE WOMAN BEHIND THE MEDALS

Ultimately, Glam & Gold gave viewers something that a highlight reel never could.

It showed Sanya Richards-Ross as a woman whose identity extended far beyond the track.

She was an athlete.

A wife.

A daughter.

A sister.

A businesswoman.

And a member of a family that was deeply invested in her success.

The show also allowed viewers to see Aaron Ross outside of the football spotlight.

He wasn't simply the NFL player.

He was Sanya's husband — someone who had his own career, ambitions and expectations for their life together.

Their marriage became a meeting point between two extraordinary careers and the ordinary realities of building a family.

WHAT FAMILY REALLY MEANS

There is something powerful about the idea of family as a support system.

For some families, support means sitting in the stands.

For the Richards family, support meant managing contracts, running businesses, making career decisions and sometimes telling Sanya things she didn't necessarily want to hear.

It meant showing up.

It meant arguing.

It meant celebrating.

It meant holding one another accountable.

And sometimes, it meant learning how to separate the person from the position.

Because when your mother is your agent, your father is your manager and your sister is your business partner, there is no easy way to leave work at the office.

The office is family.

THE LEGACY OF GLAM & GOLD

Glam & Gold premiered at a particularly interesting moment in Sanya Richards-Ross' life.

She had just achieved the individual Olympic gold medal that had eluded her at the 2008 Beijing Games. Now, instead of simply watching her race, audiences were being invited into the life surrounding the champion.

The six-episode series ultimately became a snapshot of a family navigating success together.

And perhaps that is what made the show memorable.

The gold medals were impressive.

The NFL career was impressive.

The businesses were impressive.

But underneath all of it was something much more familiar:

family.

Because behind every great accomplishment is often a group of people who helped make the journey possible.

For Sanya Richards-Ross, those people didn't simply cheer from the sidelines.

They were on the team.

And Glam & Gold invited viewers to see what happens when the people you love most are also the people helping you build your legacy.

That's family.